Tuesday, March 22, 2011

The American Academy of Pediatrics has Changed its Guidelines About Carseats

Toddlers are usually switched from rear-facing to forward-facing car seats right after their first birthday — an event many parents may celebrate as a kind of milestone.
The Children's Hospital of Philadelphia
NEW RECOMMENDATION A study found that children under 2 are 75 percent less likely to suffer severe or fatal injuries in a crash if they face backward.

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But in a new policy statement, the nation’s leading pediatricians’ group says that is a year too soon.
The advice from the American Academy of Pediatrics, issued Monday, is based primarily on a 2007University of Virginia study finding that children under 2 are 75 percent less likely to suffer severe or fatal injuries in a crash if they are facing the rear.
“A baby’s head is relatively large in proportion to the rest of his body, and the bones of his neck are structurally immature,” said the statement’s lead author, Dr. Dennis R. Durbin, scientific co-director of the Center for Injury Research and Prevention at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. “If he’s rear-facing, his entire body is better supported by the shell of the car seat. When he’s forward-facing, his shoulders and trunk may be well restrained, but in a violent crash, his head and neck can fly forward.”
The new policy statement also advises that older children should ride in a belt-positioning booster seat until they are 4 feet 9 inches tall, and 8 to 12 years old. A booster seat allows the vehicle’s lap and shoulder seat belt to fit properly, meaning the lap portion of the belt fits low across the hips and pelvis, and the shoulder portion fits across the middle of the shoulder and chest.
“Our recommendations are meant to help parents move away from gospel-held notions that are based on a child’s age,” Dr. Durbin said. “We want them to recognize that with each transition they make, from rear-facing to forward-facing, to booster seats, there is a decline in the safety of their child. That’s why we are urging parents to delay these transitions for as long as possible.”
Safety advocates applaud the new policy, but say the transition from rear- to forward-facing is usually the one that parents are least willing to delay.
“People cheer when they turn their kid around at one year, but hopefully some day they’ll cheer at how long they were able to keep their child rear-facing,” said Debbi Baer, a labor and delivery nurse in Baltimore who has been a car safety advocate for children for more than 30 years.
The academy’s previous policy, from 2002, said it was safest for infants and toddlers to ride facing the rear, and cited 12 months and 20 pounds as the minimum requirements for turning the car seat forward. But Ms. Baer, a certified child passenger safety technician, said parents tended to take that as a hard and fast rule.
“A lot of parents consider turning the car seat around as another developmental milestone that shows how brilliant and advanced their child is,” she said, “and they don’t realize that it’s making their child less safe.”
Ms. Baer says the evidence from other countries is compelling: Sweden, for instance, where children face the rear until age 4, has the world’s lowest highway fatality rate for children under 6.
Seven years ago, Ed Weissberg and his wife, Edda, of Baltimore, took Ms. Baer’s advice, and say it saved their daughter Renana’s life.
The couple and their three children were traveling north on Interstate 95 when they were broadsided by a car that had had a blowout. Their minivan flipped into the air, sailed over three lanes of traffic and landed on the shoulder, upside down.
“The E.M.T.’s told me later that as soon as they saw our car, they were ready to take out our bodies,” said Mr. Weissberg, who now lives in Israel with his family. Instead, they found the entire family nearly unscathed, with all three children suspended upside down, still securely strapped in their car seats.
“People thought we were crazy for keeping our 2-year-old rear-facing, but if she had been facing forward, she wouldn’t be alive today,” he said.
Dr. Alisa Baer, a pediatrician at Morgan Stanley Children’s Hospital in New York (and Debbi Baer’s daughter), said Renana Weissberg’s case was far from unique.
“It’s a horrible term,” she said, “but E.M.T.’s call the rear-facing seat ‘the orphan seat’ because in a bad car accident, that child is often the only one who survives.”
Until recently, most car seats that could be turned to face the rear did not accommodate children weighing more than 20 pounds. Today, however, the limits are closer to 30 to 35 pounds, and a few go to 45 pounds.
Dr. Baer said she felt so strongly that if a parent wants to install a forward-facing seat for a child younger than 2, “I tell them, ‘If you really want to make a stupid decision for your child, you can do it, but I’m not going to help you.’ ”
She noted that parents often told her that their 2-year-olds would be uncomfortable with their legs squashed against the back of the seat, and that they might be more likely to break their legs in a crash. Neither is true, she said.
“I always reassure parents that just because it looks uncomfortable to you doesn’t mean that it is for a child,” said Dr. Baer.

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Infant Schedule - A Way To Give Yourself A Break!!!

As you have probably heard, a "Baby Schedule" is a key to survival as Mom. To be honest I didn't believe nor did I know how it could even be possible. Here I have a new baby who sleeps all the time and on her own schedule. How could I put her on a schedule. Boy was I wrong!! I realized the schedule is the most important tool in taking care of your newborn. Although my daughter was on a schedule, of her own, that didn't mean I couldn't adjust that schedule. 


Although we all love to see those little baby yawns. Those baby yawns symbolize sleep deprivation. Your baby is not getting enough sleep. This can lead to several issues, cluster feeding and constant fussiness. I have a pasted my schedule as an example, feel free to copy: 


8:00am: Wake Up, Wash-Up, Change Diaper and Clothes.


8:30am-9:30am: Feed her bottle 5-6oz


9:30 -11:00am: Active time. Play time on mat and reading of one book.


11:00am: Feed her bottle 5-6oz.


11:00-1:00- Take a nap.


1:00-2:00pm: Wake up, change diaper, playing for a little while, take a nap to.


2:00pm: Bottle feeding 5-6oz.


2-3:00pm: Interactive play time.


3:00 - 4:00pm: Take a nap


4:00pm -5:00pm: Change diaper, feed her bottle 5-6oz. Awake rest in swing, play mat, tummy time. Boopy pillow or sitting up on couch.


5:00pm-6:00pm: Take a nap.


6:00pm: Wake up, change diaper. Awake play or awake rest time.


8:00pm: After a few hours of play, feed her bottle 5-6oz.  Then keep awake until bath time.


10:30pm: Bath time.


11:00pm: Feed her last bottle 5-6oz. for the night. Put in sleep sack and then to bed. 




I know seeing a 11pm bedtime, freaks most of you out, but when this was written it worked from my little one. She now goes to bed around 9-9:30pm. The point of the schedule is a dual focus; give you a break and the baby ample sleep time. Always keep in mind how you start is how you finish. If you want an earlier bedtime adjust when your child receives the first feeding, wake them up a little earlier. 


I found that putting my daughter down for naps during the day gave me much needed time to complete household chores, take naps and to have all around quite time. This made me a more healthier mom and gave me a more happier less fussy baby. 


Give schedules a try. They can only help. As always remember, NEW MOMMY KNOWS BEST!!!








Friday, February 11, 2011

This Week's Deal of the Week : Walmart Furniture Bundles

Here's a deal for YOU!!! Don't spend thousands of dollars on Nursery furniture. Check out Walmart's deals.It's amazing how much you can get for $250. How about a 4-in-1 crib, changing table and dresser, you can't beat that! 




Walmart Furniture Bundle








Look out every week for New Mommy Deals of the Week. 

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Similac Alimentum - No Milk, Not Exactly !!!

My little one happens to have a severe milk allergy. I have sampled or researched just about every formula on the market. I started with Enfamil Newborn which was given to me in the hospital; this is how I discovered that she had a terrible allergy to milk. She had continual terrible diarrhea and sour stomach. I tried her on Similac Alimentum and that lasted only for a few days. Her gas seemed to increase. Next, the Pediatrician suggested that I try a Soy formula. I did a little research and landed on Similac Isomil and gave it a whirl. I noticed some improvement but found that she became extremely constipated and now had a vomiting/spit-up issue. I couldn't figure it out, I was puzzled. With no other option, I reluctantly returned back to the Alimentum. To my surprise I saw some improvement. No more stomach cramps, diarrhea or gas, just mild vomiting. I weighed my options and thought this might be the less of the evils. 


She stayed on the Alimentium for 3 weeks and the mild vomiting continued unchanged. After receiving her vaccines I saw a huge shift occur and instead of mild vomiting, now it was violent continual large amounts of vomiting. I was shocked. After doing some research I discovered that some vaccines cause an increase in lactose tolerance. But, I didn't get it she wasn't on a Milk based formula. This made no sense, so I began my research. I was shocked at my discovery. 


Here are the ingredients to Similac Alimentium: 


Per 5 FL OZ: Protein Equivalent 2.75 g; Fat 5.54 g; Carbohydrate 10.2 g; Water 133 g; Linoleic Acid 1900 mg; Vitamin A 300 IU; Vitamin D 45 IU; Vitamin E 3.0 IU; Vitamin K 15 mcg; Thiamin (Vitamin B1) 60 mcg; Vitamin B12 0.45 mcg; Niacin 1350 mcg; Folic Acid (Folacin) 15 mcg; Pantothenic Acid 750 mcg; Biotin 4.5 mcg; Vitamin C (Ascorbic Acid) 9.0 mg; Choline 8 mg; Inositol 5 mg; Calcium 105 mg; Phosphorus 75 mg; Magnesium 7.5 mg; Iron 1.8 mg; Zinc 0.75 mg; Manganese 8 mcg; Copper 75 mcg; Iodine 15 mcg; Sodium 44 mg; Potassium 118 mg; Chloride 80 mg; Water 87%; Sugar (Sucrose) 4.4%; Casein Hydrolysate (Enzymatically Hydrolyzed and Charcoal Treated) 2.2%; Modified Tapioca Starch 2.2%; Safflower Oil 1.5%; Fractionated Coconut Oil (Medium-Chain Triglycerides) 1.3%; Soy Oil 1.1%; Less Than 1% Of: Calcium Citrate; Calcium Phosphate Dibasic; Carrageenan; Ascorbic Acid; Potassium Citrate; Potassium Phosphate Dibasic; Magnesium Chloride; Calcium Hydroxide; Potassium Chloride; Sodium Chloride; L-Methionine; L-Tyrosine; Choline Chloride; L-Tryptophan; Ferrous Sulfate; Taurine; L-Cystine Dihydrochloride; m-Inositol; Zinc Sulfate; Alpha-Tocopheryl Acetate; L-Carnitine; Niacinamide; Calcium Pantothenate; Cupric Sulfate; Vitamin A Palmitate; Thiamine Chloride Hydrochloride; Pyridoxine Hydrochloride; Potassium Iodide; Phylloquinone; Sodium Selenate; Vitamin D3; Cyanocobalamin


Notice the highlighted YELLOW ingredient, that's MILK. Not exactly a milk free formula now is it?!?! 




I was completely upset by this discovery. It explained the symptoms she was still exhibiting. I brought this up to the Pediatrician, and he confirmed this discovery. He stated that often children with a milk allergy have more  of a digestion issue rather than an actual milk allergy. This clearly was not the case for my daughter. 


Now I was left to researching another option and I discovered Enfamil Soy. Similac Isomil did not work so this was my last resort. 


I headed to the store and picked up a few concentrated cans and gave it a try. Needless to say, she is doing great. Still some gas, but no more vomiting, spitting up or diarrhea. She even seems happier. 


I'm not saying this is Bible for every child, but I wanted to make my readers aware that checking the ingredients is key. 


You can't Know Best if you don't Know What's In The Bottle!





Monday, February 7, 2011

Target vs. Walmart - The Dilemma

Today I set out on my weekly adventure of running errands. As always I made my usual stop to Target to pick up a mix of food, random items for the house, baby formula and baby related items. Since I know the layout of the local Target store my trip was quite quick. I was actually in search of one specific item, Karo Syrup. I was interested in potentially using this as a way to help combat infant constipation. I've been told it's a great alternative to medicine. Well of course I had scowerd the shelves of Target and could not find one single bottle, so that led me down the street to the local grocery store. To my surprise they did not carry Karo syrup. Completely absurd, I know, I couldn't believe it myself. This left me with only one option, Walmart. So, I proceeded to the local Walmart. I walked in and began my search. In just a few short minutes I located the Karo syrup. Instead of leaving I decided to take a little tour and look and around and see what they had to offer. To my surprise they had the same exact items I just picked up from Target but at cheaper prices. Some items for $3 less, I was shocked. Now I felt like a complete idiot. Here I am suppose to be a Supermom. Coupon carrying, deal shopping, price matching Supermom. I felt like a failure. 


As my head got lower and lower in shame after every aisle of merchandise I passed, I began to think to myself; "Why spend more?" I had no excuse nor even a sensible answer. I made my way through the checkout watching each item being scanned, and finally had an answer, "Don't spend more." 


I can't lie to you and say I will do all of my shopping at Walmart, but I will do my fair share. I love Target for it's open aisles and clean and appealing feel, but nothing beats saving money. As a mother, that's the most important gift you can give yourself, SAVING MONEY!!! 




The moral of the story the only way to Know Best is to Spend Less.









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Sunday, February 6, 2011

The Value of A Clean Hospital

In order to protect the identity of the hospitals in question, I will refer to the hospitals as Hospital "Good" and Hospital "Bad". 


I wanted to share this story with you to let you know that at the end of the day,whether you are a new mommy or a veteran, "You Always Know Best."


Two nights ago my daughter started throwing up. I took her temperature and it was 100 degrees, so I immediately contacted the pediatrician. After running down her symptoms and current condition they advised me to take her to the ER. I was faced with the choice of taking her to the "Good" hospital or the near by hospital I had never visited. Generally, even when I was in labor, I have driven 35 minutes across town to the "Good" hospital. This particular evening I thought I should take her to the nearby hospital which ironically specialized in Pediatrics. 


I arrived at the hospital and noticed it wasn't in the best neighborhood. I questioned whether I should stay, but I thought to myself, "It's probably not as old as it looked." I walked through the door and I swore I walked into a scene out of "That 70's Show." This place was extremely dated, but I found peace of mind knowing that they specialized in pediatrics. 


The triage nurse escorted me into the pediatrics wing and I almost died. First, all of the equipment was not only dated but dirty. The triage room was dirty and had medical supplies piled into the corner. This was when my concern set in and I began to panic. After they checked her vitals and we went through her symptoms, they escorted us to the ER room. This is when real panic set in and I had to devise a clear plan of action. 


I sat in the room for 5 mins rocking my daughter and gazing around the room. To my shock I noticed that the floor was beyond dirty and the ceiling had brown/red water stains.The bed she was suppose to lay on had dirt stains and appeared it had not been cleaned in years. I felt uncomfortable just being in the room, let alone sitting down in a chair. So, I devised a plan to get us "cleanly" out of this "Bad" hospital. 


After a few minutes I had a plan. See the key was I didn't want to offend anyone in my approach to this most uncomfortable circumstance and I had only so much time to waste. I proceeded to find the nurse and explain to her, "that the doctor wanted us to go to the "Good" hospital." The nurse seemed to have a stunned looked but reluctantly allowed us to leave.


I felt so bad as I got into my car, but I knew I had no other choice in the manner. I couldn't stay in a hospital that I felt wasn't clean and I didn't even feel comfortable sitting in a chair in the room. 


My daughter is doing a lot better needless to say.


The moral of the story is; I don't consider myself an expert but I am a Mommy and even a New Mommy Knows Best!