Friday, May 27, 2011

TEETHING!!!!

The teething monster has taken my baby!!! She started a few months ago trying to put her mouth on everything, since I hadn't seen a tooth I figured that is must be a random part of her development. The more I kept reading the more I realized it was early signs of teething. So, I ran out and got every teether Babies R' Us had on the market; small ring, large rings, Razz Pacifiers, Toys with teether ends as paws, etc. You name I had it. Nothing worked, all she wanted to do was suck on her favorite blanket, and so it was. The only issue that I developed was when we were out and about we didn't have the blanket, so I found an alternate. The Gerber Flower Security Blanket. This little thing was amazing. She could hold on it an suck on it easily, problem solved. My LO has never been a paci type of child. She was never a fan of hard objects in her mouth. This was a perfect solution. 


Gerber Flower Security Blanket - Gerber Childrenswear  - Babies"R"Us


Now, that I have the issue of travel under control now there was the issue of her going to sleep. She would cry her eyes out and all while running a low grade fever. I found that Tylenol would help sometimes but the pain was often too much. One night at 8 pm I ran out to Babies R' Us and searched for Baby Orajel. I realized they had a two pack; Day and Night. I gave her the night time and it was a miracle. It worked almost automatically. God only knows what's in it and trust I will be able to tell you soon, because as I do with everything I will be researching. But, if your child is having terrible teething pain, try the night time version of Orajel. 





New Mommy Comes Real!!!

So, I have been writing on this blog with a purpose of educating New Mom's about some of the stuff I have learned. But, as time went on I lost interest. Between having a newborn and balancing my life, my interest in this blog fell. I couldn't understand why, then it dawned on me that I wasn't being real. My readers had no idea who I was and what space I was coming from. All you know is I am a mom and a few experiences I have had. So, after watching the Oprah Show Finale :), I realized that we can not succeed or pursue any dreams if we are not first honest and real. So, with that being said. I am very passionate about sharing my experiences as a mom with you all and I hope you can share with me. I hope what I post is helpful and may even generate some dialogue. 

To start this path of being real, let me tell you a little about me. I am a Single Mom (I know right!!!). I have a beautiful 5 1/2 month old daughter. Don't worry, don't worry this won't be a blog about my sad story, because nothing is sad about being a single mom for me. Her father is MIA which was not expected, but she has the best unique family consisting of my close friends and family. She is loved is so many different ways. I LOVE being a mom and watching her change and grow into this wonderful person that fills my day full of joy. 



I lost my job at 8 1/2 months pregnant and basically have been a SAHM for the past 7 months. As you know the job market is terrible so basically I have embraced this new job of being a MOM. DON'T feel bad for me at all. My life is blessed more than you could imagine and this child has more than even I had at her age. 


I decided to write this blog initially to share some of the insight I developed and to talk with New Mom's. Today, I decided to not only do the same thing but I want this to be a diary so my daughter can one day read it and see what it was like when she was a baby and older. I hope to not only just discuss what it's like to be a Mom in general but take that discussion to the next level. We are given such a blessing, but boy or boy is there some real work involved. I want to share my experience, and I hope you will comment and share yours. 


So, with that being said. Now you know me. Let me get to know you. Let our adventure begin. Don't forget




NEW MOMMY KNOWS BEST!!!!

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Complaint filed to FTC over ‘Your Baby Can Read’

By Jeff Rossen and Robert Powell
TODAY.com

A national watchdog group that campaigned successfully to change the way the popular “Baby Einstein” program markets its product is now trying to get the folks at “Your Baby Can Read” to do the same.

The Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood recently filed a complaint with the Federal Trade Commission alleging that “Your Baby Can Read” uses deceptive marketing to get parents to buy its DVDs, flashcards and other materials.

Last year, an NBC News investigation that aired on TODAY found that child development experts from coast to coast were of the collective opinion that while young children can be made to recognize or memorize words, the brains of most infants and toddlers are just not developed enough to actually learn to read at the level the way the enticing television ads claim they can.
A national watchdog group has filed an official complaint with the Federal Trade Commission regarding “Your Baby Can Read,” calling the program’s claims “false and misleading.”
"It's deceptive, and it's really harmful. Parents are shelling out all this money for something that is basically snakeoil,” said Susan Linn, executive director of the Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood. "We were just so pleased that the TODAY show took this on. It's the first expose we've seen about this product."

Linn’s group claims in its FTC complaint that “Your Baby Can Read” is not only false and misleading, the program “poses significant health and safety risks to infants” who are encouraged to sit in front of TVs and computer monitors by parents who hope they can get a headstart on life by teaching their children to read early.

"We want the FTC to stop "Your Baby Can Read" from false and deceptive marketing, and we want "Your Baby Can Read" to offer refunds to all those parents who have been duped," said Linn.

The FTC confirmed that they are reviewing the new complaint. Asked for comment, “Your Baby Can Read” told NBC News: “We are proud of our accomplishments … Thousands of parents have shared the success stories of their children with us, and hundreds have sent us videos of their children’s progress.”

Asked last year about those who are of opinion that children cannot really learn to read until they are 4 or 5 years old, the creator of “Your Baby Can Read” dismissed the criticisms.

 “They’re all wrong,” said Dr. Robert Titzer, who calls himself an infant learning expert but actually holds a graduate degree in “human performance” — the study of motor skills.

Titzer told TODAY at the time that his program is backed by scientific research. He acknowledged that it starts with memorization, but insisted it leads to reading.

“The baby does learn to read,” he said. “My children could read better at age 4 than I could at age, you know, at my age.”

The Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood’s fight against “Baby Einstein” brought customer refunds and changes in how that product is marketed in 2006. It is still on the market, however.

The FTC closed its investigation in 2007 without recommending any enforcement action. The agency noted at the time that “Baby Einstein” had voluntarily revised its claims and that there were no conclusive scientific studies about the effects of watching too much television on infants or toddlers. 

Where does that leave parents? Experts say the best way to teach your baby to read is free: Read to them, sign to them and expose them to language. And when they are ready, they’ll read.

For more information on the Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood and how to file a complaint, go to www.commercialfreechildhood.org. For more info from the FTC, click here.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Graduated Vaccine Schedule

Many parents worry about the effects of vaccines. In 2008, 39 percent of parents became educated about vaccinations and refused or delayed vaccines for their children. This compares to just 22 percent in 2003.


The data comes from a telephone survey of the parents of 9,000 toddlers. Many of the parents were worried about whether the vaccines were safe or effective.
I decided to post a Graduated Vaccine Schedule for my readers. I know that I have had issues locating one, so please see below. Keep in mind it's never too late to adjust your infants schedule. 
*** Note this schedule is based off of Dr. Sears' Alternative Vaccine Schedule.***

* 2 Months: DTap, Rotavirus
* 3 Months: Pc, HIB 
* 4 Months: DTap, Rotavirus
* 5 Months: Pc, HIB 
* 6 Months: DTap, Rotavirus
* 7 Months: Pc, HIB 
* 9 Months: Polio (IPV)
* 12 Months: Mumps, Polio (IPV)
* 15 Months: Pc, HIB
* 18 months: DTap, Chickenpox
* 2 years: Rubella, Polio (IPV)
* 2 1/2 Years: Hep B, Hep A ( Start Hep B at birth if any close relatives or caregivers have Hep B)
* 3 Years: Hep B, Measles 
* 3 1/2 Years: Hep B, Hep A
* 4 Years : DTap, Polio (IPV)
* 5 Years: MMR
* 6 Years: Chickenpox
* 12 Years: Tdap, HPV
* 13 Years: HPV, Meningococcal 

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

The American Academy of Pediatrics has Changed its Guidelines About Carseats

Toddlers are usually switched from rear-facing to forward-facing car seats right after their first birthday — an event many parents may celebrate as a kind of milestone.
The Children's Hospital of Philadelphia
NEW RECOMMENDATION A study found that children under 2 are 75 percent less likely to suffer severe or fatal injuries in a crash if they face backward.

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But in a new policy statement, the nation’s leading pediatricians’ group says that is a year too soon.
The advice from the American Academy of Pediatrics, issued Monday, is based primarily on a 2007University of Virginia study finding that children under 2 are 75 percent less likely to suffer severe or fatal injuries in a crash if they are facing the rear.
“A baby’s head is relatively large in proportion to the rest of his body, and the bones of his neck are structurally immature,” said the statement’s lead author, Dr. Dennis R. Durbin, scientific co-director of the Center for Injury Research and Prevention at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. “If he’s rear-facing, his entire body is better supported by the shell of the car seat. When he’s forward-facing, his shoulders and trunk may be well restrained, but in a violent crash, his head and neck can fly forward.”
The new policy statement also advises that older children should ride in a belt-positioning booster seat until they are 4 feet 9 inches tall, and 8 to 12 years old. A booster seat allows the vehicle’s lap and shoulder seat belt to fit properly, meaning the lap portion of the belt fits low across the hips and pelvis, and the shoulder portion fits across the middle of the shoulder and chest.
“Our recommendations are meant to help parents move away from gospel-held notions that are based on a child’s age,” Dr. Durbin said. “We want them to recognize that with each transition they make, from rear-facing to forward-facing, to booster seats, there is a decline in the safety of their child. That’s why we are urging parents to delay these transitions for as long as possible.”
Safety advocates applaud the new policy, but say the transition from rear- to forward-facing is usually the one that parents are least willing to delay.
“People cheer when they turn their kid around at one year, but hopefully some day they’ll cheer at how long they were able to keep their child rear-facing,” said Debbi Baer, a labor and delivery nurse in Baltimore who has been a car safety advocate for children for more than 30 years.
The academy’s previous policy, from 2002, said it was safest for infants and toddlers to ride facing the rear, and cited 12 months and 20 pounds as the minimum requirements for turning the car seat forward. But Ms. Baer, a certified child passenger safety technician, said parents tended to take that as a hard and fast rule.
“A lot of parents consider turning the car seat around as another developmental milestone that shows how brilliant and advanced their child is,” she said, “and they don’t realize that it’s making their child less safe.”
Ms. Baer says the evidence from other countries is compelling: Sweden, for instance, where children face the rear until age 4, has the world’s lowest highway fatality rate for children under 6.
Seven years ago, Ed Weissberg and his wife, Edda, of Baltimore, took Ms. Baer’s advice, and say it saved their daughter Renana’s life.
The couple and their three children were traveling north on Interstate 95 when they were broadsided by a car that had had a blowout. Their minivan flipped into the air, sailed over three lanes of traffic and landed on the shoulder, upside down.
“The E.M.T.’s told me later that as soon as they saw our car, they were ready to take out our bodies,” said Mr. Weissberg, who now lives in Israel with his family. Instead, they found the entire family nearly unscathed, with all three children suspended upside down, still securely strapped in their car seats.
“People thought we were crazy for keeping our 2-year-old rear-facing, but if she had been facing forward, she wouldn’t be alive today,” he said.
Dr. Alisa Baer, a pediatrician at Morgan Stanley Children’s Hospital in New York (and Debbi Baer’s daughter), said Renana Weissberg’s case was far from unique.
“It’s a horrible term,” she said, “but E.M.T.’s call the rear-facing seat ‘the orphan seat’ because in a bad car accident, that child is often the only one who survives.”
Until recently, most car seats that could be turned to face the rear did not accommodate children weighing more than 20 pounds. Today, however, the limits are closer to 30 to 35 pounds, and a few go to 45 pounds.
Dr. Baer said she felt so strongly that if a parent wants to install a forward-facing seat for a child younger than 2, “I tell them, ‘If you really want to make a stupid decision for your child, you can do it, but I’m not going to help you.’ ”
She noted that parents often told her that their 2-year-olds would be uncomfortable with their legs squashed against the back of the seat, and that they might be more likely to break their legs in a crash. Neither is true, she said.
“I always reassure parents that just because it looks uncomfortable to you doesn’t mean that it is for a child,” said Dr. Baer.

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Infant Schedule - A Way To Give Yourself A Break!!!

As you have probably heard, a "Baby Schedule" is a key to survival as Mom. To be honest I didn't believe nor did I know how it could even be possible. Here I have a new baby who sleeps all the time and on her own schedule. How could I put her on a schedule. Boy was I wrong!! I realized the schedule is the most important tool in taking care of your newborn. Although my daughter was on a schedule, of her own, that didn't mean I couldn't adjust that schedule. 


Although we all love to see those little baby yawns. Those baby yawns symbolize sleep deprivation. Your baby is not getting enough sleep. This can lead to several issues, cluster feeding and constant fussiness. I have a pasted my schedule as an example, feel free to copy: 


8:00am: Wake Up, Wash-Up, Change Diaper and Clothes.


8:30am-9:30am: Feed her bottle 5-6oz


9:30 -11:00am: Active time. Play time on mat and reading of one book.


11:00am: Feed her bottle 5-6oz.


11:00-1:00- Take a nap.


1:00-2:00pm: Wake up, change diaper, playing for a little while, take a nap to.


2:00pm: Bottle feeding 5-6oz.


2-3:00pm: Interactive play time.


3:00 - 4:00pm: Take a nap


4:00pm -5:00pm: Change diaper, feed her bottle 5-6oz. Awake rest in swing, play mat, tummy time. Boopy pillow or sitting up on couch.


5:00pm-6:00pm: Take a nap.


6:00pm: Wake up, change diaper. Awake play or awake rest time.


8:00pm: After a few hours of play, feed her bottle 5-6oz.  Then keep awake until bath time.


10:30pm: Bath time.


11:00pm: Feed her last bottle 5-6oz. for the night. Put in sleep sack and then to bed. 




I know seeing a 11pm bedtime, freaks most of you out, but when this was written it worked from my little one. She now goes to bed around 9-9:30pm. The point of the schedule is a dual focus; give you a break and the baby ample sleep time. Always keep in mind how you start is how you finish. If you want an earlier bedtime adjust when your child receives the first feeding, wake them up a little earlier. 


I found that putting my daughter down for naps during the day gave me much needed time to complete household chores, take naps and to have all around quite time. This made me a more healthier mom and gave me a more happier less fussy baby. 


Give schedules a try. They can only help. As always remember, NEW MOMMY KNOWS BEST!!!








Friday, February 11, 2011

This Week's Deal of the Week : Walmart Furniture Bundles

Here's a deal for YOU!!! Don't spend thousands of dollars on Nursery furniture. Check out Walmart's deals.It's amazing how much you can get for $250. How about a 4-in-1 crib, changing table and dresser, you can't beat that! 




Walmart Furniture Bundle








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